Elsie Schaefer Ashmore of Riverhead died on July 22, 2024, at Bellhaven Center for Rehabilitation and Nursing Care in Bellport. She was 97 years old.
Born to Ellis and Ida Lucas in Riverhead, Elsie was a homemaker and also worked as a secretary at LILCO in her early 20s. She was known for her independence and was proud of purchasing her own boat with her earnings. Elsie and her first husband, Eugene Schaefer, were parents to three children and cherished their role as grandparents, particularly in the life of their grandson, Matthew Schaefer.
Later in her life, Elsie served as the secretary to the First Congregational Church of Riverhead, a place of worship for her family for many years. Her family said she was known for her delicious apple and rhubarb pies, which she baked for her family, church, school bake sales, and the Riverhead Fire Department, where her husband Eugene served as chief and volunteer.
After the loss of her first husband, Elsie found love again with former classmate John Ashmore, while assisting with their Riverhead High School graduating class’ 50th reunion. The couple enjoyed road trips to Pennsylvania Amish Country, and Washington, D.C. to honor veterans on Memorial Day, and driving to Cedar Beach for ice cream. According to Elsie, for a while, ti was like being a teenager again!
Her family said she will be remembered for her abundance of patience, empathy, and care.
Elsie is predeceased by her first husband, Eugene Schaefer of Riverhead, and her second husband, John Ashmore of Rocky Point. She is survived by her three children: Edward Schaefer (Debbie) of Riverhead, Jeanne Schaefer of Brookhaven and Jim Schaefer of Riverhead. She is also survived by her grandson, Matthew Schaefer (Jen) of Brooklyn and her step-granddaughter, Amanda (Mike).
A private graveside service was held by her family.
